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September 21 挡的只是不来的人 文:李碧华
有些话,说得顺理成章,理直气壮:——
「我没有时间。」 「我赶不及。」 「要开会。」 「不,真的挤不出空档。」 「好玩!」 「没有人知你到哪儿去?」 「我找过你的,找不到!」 「怕妨碍了你。」 世上没有「挤不出」的时间,也没有「找不到」的人。 没空档,是相比之下,另有重要的事。没时间,是你不肯赶,不肯忙,甚至不肯睡少一阵子,——如果愿意,再辛苦,也飞到千里以外,见对方一面。 找不到?更是荒谬而悲凉。那个人来来去去在你知道的地方,玩失踪,也有蛛丝马迹可寻。真的要找,天涯海角,岁月沧桑,也能找到。你尽了力吗?你真的「很想」把他/她揪出来吗?你相信缘分吗?抑或,你只是为自己和对方找一个比较顺耳的藉口? 有一古老的俗谚: 「墙高万丈,挡的是不来的人。」 除了万丈高墙,一切的钢门、密码锁、防盗电网、利器、矜持、高傲、势利、年龄差距和悬殊身分……,统统挡的只是不来的人。 ——要来?千军万马也挡不住的。 P.S.: 昨天去看了场话剧,记得里面的一段台词,“除了万丈高墙,一切的钢门、密码锁、防盗电网、利器、矜持、高傲、势利、年龄差距和悬殊身份......统统挡的只是不来的人。”在网上搜了一下,竟然找出这样一篇文章,看到它的全部。
挡的只是不来的人,要来,什么又能挡得住呢?
September 15 Wife definitions by famous peopleWhen a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her. ——David Bissonette Woman inspires us to great things, and prevents us from achieving them.——Anonymous I had some words with my wife, and she had some paragraphs with me. ——Sigmund Freud 'Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight,dinner, soft music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays.' ——Anonymous Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it once... ——Nash You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to. ——Anonymous My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met.——Henny Youngman A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong. ——Rodney Dangerfield First Guy (proudly): 'My wife's an angel!' September 14 Happiness is a journey —— (转)
We always convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, than another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren’t old enough and we’ll be more content when they are. After that we’re frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. we will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We always tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together. when we get a nice car, and are able to go on a nice vocation when we retire. The truth is, there’s no better time than right now. If not now, when? our life will always be filled with challenges. It’s best to admit this to ourselves and decide to be happy anyway.
One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred Souza. He said, “ for a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin-real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid.”
Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life.” This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment that you have.
And remember that time waits for no one. So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school; until you get married, until you get divorced; until you have kids; until you retire; until you get a new car or home; until spring; until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy….
Happiness is a journey, not a destination. So, work like you don’t need money, love like you’ve never been hurt, And dance like no one’s watching.
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